How God Exposed the Depth and Tenaciousness of My White Male Supremacy and I Became a Recovering Racists
McCoy United
Methodist Church
How God Exposed the
Depth and Tenaciousness of My White Male Supremacy and I Became a Recovering
Racists
In the summer of 1984 the Rev. Bob Morgan was elected as a
Bishop of the United Methodist Church at the Southeastern Jurisdiction
Conference at Camp Junaluska. That set
in motion a chain of appointments in the North Alabama Conference that resulted
in the Rev. Bill Davis calling me to discus me being appointed to the McCoy
United Methodist Church in Birmingham. I
agreed to the move and on August 15, 1984, Nancy, Beth Ann and I moved to the
McCoy Parsonage located next door to the McCoy Church on 8th Avenue
West. Lawton Jr. and Kevin were in
school at Birmingham Southern College just across Arkadelphia Road from the
church and behind the tall wrought iron fence.
They both graduated from college there.
The day we moved into the parsonage was a very eventful
day. Beth Ann and her first cousin,
Nancy Olivia Brown were traveling back to Tuscaloosa to take care of some
business when they were run off of the west bound lane of I-59/20 into the
median by an eighteen wheeler tractor trailer rig. Their car flipped. They were deeply shaken up but escaped with only minor
injuries.
A similar shakeup took place in my life that day, one that
would determine the guiding focus of my ministry in the years to come. My ministry focus at the St. Luke United
Methodist Church in Tuscaloosa had been church growth. Our motto was, “Double or More in 84.” I brought that passion with me to McCoy. Around noon on that move in day we discovered
that we needed some food supplies to complete our lunch preparations. So I dashed out to the College Hills Grocery
located across the street from the McCoy Church. Out the front door, down the steps, I
proceeded to j walk across 8th Avenue. It was when I reached the turn lane in 8th
Avenue West that I saw a moving van backed up to the Blackstone Apartments
located next to the College Hills Grocery.
My church growth training kicked into gear. One of
the principles of church growth was to look for moving vans to discover people
moving into the neighborhood. People in
transition, moving into the neighborhood, would make good candidates for church
membership. That training helped me to
hear with precise clarity God saying to me, “Lawton invite those people to
church!” I responded, intending to make a quick visit to my new neighbors,
inviting them to church. I changed my
direction in the turn lane of 8th Avenue West to head to the
Blackstone Apartments. It was then that I caught sight of the family moving
in. They were black. I became paralyzed in the middle of the turn
lane of 8th Avenue West, cars whizzing by in both lanes. I was unable to invite a black person to
church. I was 44 years old, I had
invited thousands of white folks to church, but never a black person. I don’t know how long I stood paralyzed in
that turn lane. It felt like an eternity. I thought I had dealt with my racism in
seminary when I discovered which side of the Civil Rights Movement God was on
as I read Dr. King’s “Letter from the Birmingham City Jail.” But racism is a deep, tenacious, sinful,
cancerous, demonic addiction of the soul, as difficult to cast out as addiction
to crack cocaine or heroin. Finally, God
said to me, “Lawton if you can’t invite these beautiful black people to church
I can’t use you in this city. I want you
to go back across the street and pack your bags and leave!” I was to ashamed to go back across the street
and pack up and leave Birmingham, so I reluctantly forced my feet over to the
Blackstone Apartments and invited the family to church. I am sure that they could sense my reluctance
in the invitation I made to come to church with me and they never came. I went on to the College Hills Grocery,
picked up the things we needed for lunch and continued to unpack and settle in
at McCoy. That day with the help of the
Lord I became a recovering racists. After
sleeping on the encounter with God the day before and my reluctant invitation
to black people to come to the church I was appointed to serve, I began to feel
a new excitement about the possibilities that were open to me for ministry at
McCoy and in Birmingham.
1 Comments:
Lawton, thank you for sharing this. You are correct. The strains of racism run deep. It is even more difficult for some people to let go of their racist thoughts because they find it hard to believe that their parents and other family members dislike a race of people because of their skin color. They are the ones who continue to hate because they refuse to believe that their family members could have been wrong. They'll never be able to reach the point that you have reached and that is so sad.
Marva V. Douglas
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